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Articles from this month's issue of the Berean News


Viewpoint

Who's the Boss

"Who's the boss?" is the question I find myself asking a lot lately.

In my own personal life, I find that being the boss or the leader comes with a lot of obligations. As a result, I often defer this role to others. In my family, my son D.J. tells me he is the boss, and at work, I am often reminded by my assistant that she is the boss. After reviewing Colossians and I Thessalonians, I found several characteristics that are required to be a good boss or leader, and I realized that the reason I so often defer this role is because I fall short of the expectations.

To be a good leader or boss, you must be encouraging and comforting. This is a message Paul sends throughout First Thessalonians. In verse 2:11, where Paul is reminding the Thessalonians of the love he had for them, he states that he dealt with the Thessalonians "as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God." In verse 3:2, he states that because of his intense longing to see them again, but his inability to do so, Paul has sent Timothy "to strengthen and encourage you (the Thessalonians) in your faith, so that no one would be unsettled by these trials." Finally, in 5:11, Paul's last request for the Thessalonians is to "encourage one another and build each other up." Paul, like any good boss, realizes that encouragement and support are the foundation to any successful and productive relationship. They enable an employee or individual to be confident in the most harrowing situations because they know they will not be second guessed and the "boss" has confidence that they will handle it the best way possible.

In First Thessalonians 4:11, Paul lays out another critical element of being a successful boss: respect. Paul states "Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody." Too often bosses do not respect others. They forget that employees work with them and not for them. They let their power go to their heads and they try to bolster their own self-esteem at the expense of those that work with them. Just as large a problem is bosses often do not respect themselves and they become greedy or use flattery to bolster their self-esteem. Paul points out in First Thessalonians 2:5 that these are weakness when he states "You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed. God is our witness." He realized the weakness of these vices and made it a point to warn the Thessalonians to stay clear of them.

Paul goes on to give us the guidance we need to earn the respect of others:

1). Colossians 4:1 - Do what is right and be faithful.

2). I Thessalonians 4:6 - Do not wrong your brother or take advantage of him.

3). I Thessalonians 4:9 - Love each other.

If you keep these principles in your heart, then whether you are the boss or not does not matter because you will be pleasing to your ultimate boss, the one all Christians answer to: God.

--Dan Arends


Perspective

The Strange Bush

Moses received the best formal education and training that was possible in his time. He was trained as a potential heir to the throne of Pharaoh. And yet, through his own rash act of murder, he had to flee the civilized world of his day to live in the desert of Midian. There for 40 Years he was trained in a very different way until the LORD GOD thought he was ready.

"Now Moses was tending the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian, and he led the flock to the far side of the desert and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. There the angel of the Lord appeared to him in flames of fire from within a bush. Moses saw that though the bush was on fire it did not burn up. So Moses thought, "I will go over and see this strange sight -- why the bush does not burn up" (Exodus 3:1-3).

What a strange incident. What a strange bush. It was on fire &emdash; but, unlike any other bush, it did not burn up. The bush just kept burning. It burned and burned and burned, but it was not consumed by the flames of fire. Of course Moses noticed this strange sight &emdash; who wouldn't have? We are told that Yahweh God was revealing Himself through that strange burning bush. What did it mean? What did that strange bush signify?

The bush was apparently an acacia bush, the thorn bush of the desert. The thorn is a symbol of sin; it was the result of the curse of Genesis 3. Jesus very significantly had a crown of thorns placed on his head at his crucifixion. According to both the Old and New Testaments (Deuteronomy 4:24 and Hebrews 12:29) "God is a consuming fire." God is holy and righteous. Because of this, sin should be consumed by the judgment of God. But this bush, while being judged and burned, was not consumed. Here is a picture of sin under judgment without being consumed.

There is only one thing that makes this possible. You and I along with all of mankind are under judgment because of sin. We should all be instantly consumed, destroyed by the righteous judgment of God. But while we are sinful, we are not consumed. God has made provision for us. This is the GRACE of God. It is only through His grace that we can come to Him, that He calls to us, that He provides His own son as the penalty for sin. It is through grace that Jesus wore the crown of thorns for us. It is that grace which attracts us to God. The bush burns, but is not consumed. May others see that grace in and through us.

Larry Urbaniak


A Daughter's Heart

Safe in His Arms

I can remember as a little girl, the feeling of security that emitted from my dad. When something scared me or overwhelmed me, I would search out my dad and imploringly look up at him silently calling out, "Dad, help me! I can't handle this alone!" He would calmly put down his newspaper, and I would crawl up into his big, warm lap. His strong arms would encompass me, my head would lean against his broad chest, and suddenly I felt as though I could breathe again. Sometimes being held was enough to release a flood of tears and confessions.

Even though I am older now (and about 1,800 miles away from my dad), I still occasionally find myself in that kind of need. I want to be near my dad, close to that loving security.

A big difference between Mandy the 5 year-old and Mandy the 24 year-old is that I know that there is someone even greater and stronger than Dad - God, our Heavenly Father. I can rest assured that wherever I am, in

whatever state I am in, God has a perfect love for me that is shown in Christ Jesus (Ro. 8:38,39; Phil.4:11,13). He who cares for the sparrow and knows how many hairs are on my head cannot conceivably fail. He is an impenetrable fortress, into which no evil or enemy can infiltrate. I find that once I submit everything into this divine dwelling place, all fear and anxiety should dissipate.

If I try to handle everything independently, I may very well fear and tremble, for how can "my strength" compare to His absolute security? So why don't I run into this fortified tower and stay in there forever?! How silly it is that when surrounded by the enemy, I should stand outside a refuge and cry out for safety! The answer is clear: "If I want to be safe, I must go in."

--Mandy Blake


Other Items

When the Master Calls

When the Master is calling and bidding you come
To follow Jesus, His only son
Will you open your heart and let Him in
For Jesus knows you have need of Him
Hold His hand and touch his feet
Hear His voice, O how sweet
The Master cares and longs for you
He'll forgive your sins and make you new
He'll light your heart with truth and grace
And save you from the world's disgrace
With His footsteps, He'll lead the way
When you walk beside Him day by day
When the Master calls, you need not fear
He'll comfort you and draw so near
His call is gentle and ever so tender
Receive Him in, be saved and surrender
When you forsake all of the world's pleasures
In Christ you'll find life's greatest treasures
Leave the world behind and look at the cross ahead
Satisfy your soul be spiritually fed
For at the cross of Jesus, He set man free
From the sin that binds both you and me
We were once lost, but now we see
How wretched all our sins can be
We are blessed with new hope and eternal life we receive
When we trust in Christ and in Him believe
So when the Master calls, pray not to delay
Be saved from sin on this very day.

--Alice Gmiterek Ryden

 

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Roy's Reflections

Two Sisters

Leah was the first wife of Jacob. The Bible describes her in Genesis 29-17 by saying "Leah's eyes were weak," and to add insult to injury, her sister Rachael, Jacob's second and very loved wife, is described as "beautiful and lovely."

Jacob worked for his Uncle Laban for seven years to be able to marry Rachel whom he passionately loved. When he woke up from his wedding night and discovered that the veiled woman he married was Leah! Talk about a double take. He had been deceived and he married the older sister. For her part in the deception Jacob treated her with contempt.

Though furious, he worked for yet another seven years so he could marry his beloved Rachel. Genesis 29-30 "So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah, and served Laban for another seven years." This was not a family in harmony. These two sisters were constantly fighting for the love and attention of their husband. Fate seemed to have cast Rachel as the beloved wife of Jacob while weak-eyed Leah vainly did all she could to win her husband's love. And in a measure Jacob did love Leah but he loved Rachel more.

Do you ever feel like life is playing favorites - and you're not it? If so, consider the life of Leah. Leah did not have her husband's favor and she then began to seek the Lord. And she found favor with the Lord. Genesis 29-31 'When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren." The tide began to turn when Leah began to quit trying to get her blessing, love, and security from her husband and instead began to cry out to God.

Leah got her heart's desire over her barren sister. Genesis 29:32 "And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben; for she said, 'Because the LORD has looked upon my affliction-, surely now my husband will love me'." Her heart was to win her husband's love even though she was a willing participant in the deceptive wedding. "Shotgun" marriages often end up like this.

This striving went on and on with Leah. She had five sons until number six was born. Genesis 30-20 "Then Leah said, 'God has endowed me with a good dowry- now my husband will honor me, because I have borne him six sons'; so she called his name Zebulun." Through all of this domestic tragedy, first she was trying to win her husband's love. Somewhere along the way his love wasn't nearly so important as was winning his honor - she wanted this man's respect.

Rachael died in childbirth. She had stolen her fathers'gods and hidden them. Jacob spoke a death sentence over who ever had stolen these items and because of his curse, his beloved wife died prematurely. While a beautiful woman, Rachael had proven crafty.

God had honored Leah over Rachel. Both of these warring sisters had a problem with idolatry. Rachael stole her father's household idols because they were considered the family seal. Whoever owned them was the inheritor apparent of the family fortune. Leah's idol was an idol of the heart. She honored her estranged husband over everything else. An idol is something you love more than God. And finally Leah began to get a revelation that she needed the love and favor of God more than the love and favor of Jacob.

So what finally happened to Leah, to a woman who starved for her husbands love and respect? Years later she died and was buried. As Jacob was dying on his bed, he gave instructions concerning his burial. His grandfather had purchased a cave where he and his wife were buried. Isaac, Jacob's father and his wife were also buried there. Jacob wanted to be buried there as well - the same place he buried his beloved wife Leah!

Rachel was given a tomb outside the family burial plot while Leah was placed in the family mausoleum where her husband would be buried next to her. Jacob recounted this to his sons when he said, Genesis 49:31 "There they buried Abraham and Sarah his wife; there they buried Isaac and Rebekah his wife; and there I buried Leah." Jacob wanted to be entombed with his beloved Leah, and not Rachel!

Leah the rejected older sister became Leah the beloved and favored wife- once she quit trying to win her husband's heart and she began to honor God - God turned the circumstances and began to bless her. In Ruth 4:11, a common saying of Israel is repeated concerning Rachel and her sister Leah, the two mothers of Israel, 'We are witnesses. May the LORD make the woman, who is coming into your house, like Rachel and Leah, who together built up the house of Israel."

If you're in an unfair situation and no matter what you do, you cannot win the favor of people, give the situation over to God and let him turn the circumstances. You cannot hope to win your battle alone: the battle belongs to the Lord. You may very well need the favor of man, but you will not get it until you have first won the favor of God; and that only happens when you begin to seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.

Sometimes earthly advantages like physical beauty and wealth can be a killing snare to you. They don't have to be, but sadly often are. If you feel unloved and rejected, call upon the Lord who will love you as a father. Make the Most High God your beloved and desire - and perhaps like Leah, once you have honored the Lord, he will turn the circumstances and give you the delayed desire of your heart. Once she quit striving for her husband's love, Leah finally won his heart. But she had won God's heart long before.

--Roy R. Boswell


 

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